Grandma Pearly

Whoever said life is short didn't spend much time living.

I have three Grandmas, from my mom, dad and paternal father's side, all who I love very much. Two live outside of town, and one a 15 minute drive away.

My Grandma Pearl(y) is a woman who is hard to forget if you've had the chance to meet her. She's tall, bold and religious. Three qualities I love in her. 

I must also mention: hard worker. I remember her drive and compelling attitude as insurance broker. Outside of her career, she was friendly to every soul she passed by. In the elevator, at the bank, at church or from inside her car. "Heellllooo!" "How are you?" "Don't I know your mummy?" Yes she could talk! And those suits and heels, never one to leave her house undone. 

Swag Tun Up

It's that time of year...spring was nice, but summer is when things really get heated.

Now that I am shaking off some spring cleaning that was in order, I am finally in gear to refocuses on a pile of projects that I am to complete by this coming fall. It's a welcome overwhelming feeling because I am the primary beneficiary in this hustle, a key detailed I had sacrificed over a long period of time. (Dat nuh mek no sense, right? I know sometimes I have to wonder about me too, lol.)

As mentioned, my main focus is in the opening my multifaceted space and festival. Both are coming along well, and the feedback has been so empowering, I can't stop thinking about it.

I am undergoing a world-wind of personal transitions, but I fundamentally believe that these difficult times are blessings in disguise. With reinforcers, such as the above image I came across, I know that following my intuition will only guide me to fruition. That said, I am also conscious of how I present myself to others when dealing with frustration and to be mindful that it is easy to let loose as opposed to maintaining control. So luckily I've been able to walk off a lot of tension and at the same time receive clarity.


As for why this resonates > I have learned, it is one thing to be patient and kind, yet it is another to open to disrespect and intentional put-downs. You will only receive what you accept and I have allowed some to take my kindness for weakness. So it's time to cut ties from toxic relationships and learn from this experience to strengthen present and future relationships, where I will not let the longevity of a relationship cloud when I am unhappy.

The Alchemist

No word of a lie, I wished this book into existence. While going on a 'Goodwill run' with my mom and sisters a few weekends ago I was determined to find The Alchemist. As soon as we entered the first store I headed straight to the book section, my favourite area. At first I was contemplating what type of book I would like to find, usually I pick up ones I have previously read but have borrowed out (with no return in sight) or I myself have borrowed (and returned) but do not own a copy. I also like to pick up magazine to look for fashion inspirations that I can tear from the pages and save for when their needed.